“This shows you care about what he thinks,” says Allison.

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” Make eye contact -- then look away “Making eye contact and holding it just a few seconds longer than a casual glance causes him to take notice of you and start to wonder what you may have meant by that,” says Lieberman. Be expressive Catch his eye by being the type of woman who isn’t afraid to get up and dance or stay seated and express her opinions.

“It’s the cool ‘silent flirt’ that can make him want to know more.” No need to wink or lick your lips (ew! “Showing a man that you are bold in your feelings about life can capture his attention and make him want to get to know you,” says Lieberman.

“So, if you give him an opening, he’ll feel less on the spot and appreciate the encouragement.” Touch him A tap on the arm to reinforce your point will do the trick.

(Save his inner thigh for after you’ve gotten to know him.) “Flirtatious touching is a great indicator that you are into someone,” says Sadie Allison, M. “But keep it clean so he doesn’t get the wrong idea of your light affection. A brush on his chest might be ok too -- just stay above the belly!

Compliment him A woman complimenting a man on something she finds attractive is super sexy without being too suggestive -- as long as she focuses on his PG attributes.

“Complimenting a guy is a great way to flirt without giving up your power,” says Carole Lieberman, M. “When you give a compliment, it shows that you feel self-confident enough to make someone else feel good.

Just don’t take it too far, like leaning in showing cleavage, or not sitting like a lady.” Be wanted Use your powers of attraction to grab the attention of other men in the room. Just make sure he realizes other men notice you, too.

“Being wanted by other men is a healthy addition to your overall flirt effect,” says Allison.

“Men don’t like women who are boring, insipid or lethargic.